Because
Genesis 31:26
Then Laban said to Jacob, "What have you done by deceiving me and carrying away my daughters like captives of the sword?
Genesis 31:27
"Why did you flee secretly and deceive me, and did not tell me so that I might have sent you away with joy and with songs, with timbrel and with lyre;
Genesis 20:11
Abraham said, "Because I thought, surely there is no fear of God in this place, and they will kill me because of my wife.
Proverbs 29:25
The fear of man brings a snare, But he who trusts in the LORD will be exalted.